#1 Bedtime Prayer Routine For Faithful Women
“You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly” — James 4:3
It had been a whole year since I spoke to my daughter Abby.
365 days since our falling out.
I realized that while sitting at the kitchen table at 11:47 PM.
A whole year went by without my daughter knowing how much we were struggling.
My back ached from two jobs… And I had recently received a diagnosis that turned my whole year upside down.
I had no idea how we would pay for the surgery my doctor says I need.
“God, please give us money. Please heal me. Please make sure Abby is okay. Please.”
But months later, nothing had changed.
Bills were stacking up. Our savings account had $187… and my surgery was three months away.

All while the distance between me and Abby grew.
I began losing hope.
Maybe I’m not doing it right.
Maybe God is listening and this is His answer.
I didn’t say any of that out loud. You don’t say things like that out loud in my church.
But I thought them.
And the thinking made me feel guilty. And the guilt made it harder to pray.

I had never been someone who struggled with faith.
I had grown up in the church…
I know that God is present, that He hears me, that He cares.
But somewhere between the diagnosis and the third call from the bank and the silence from my daughter, I stopped knowing how to start.
I would sit on the edge of the bed and the words just wouldn’t come anymore.
Not because I didn’t want to pray.
Because I was afraid that if I asked wrong again, nothing would change again.
I knew He was there… I just didn’t know what to say to Him anymore.

I asked him if I was praying wrong.
Am I asking in the right way? Or am I being greedy?
“It’s not that God is refusing you,” he said.
“It’s that sometimes we ask from a place of fear or desperation or self-reliance – and what we really need is to come to Him differently.
To align ourselves with what He actually wants for us.
To trust that His provision is real, even when we can’t see the shape of it yet.”
He reminded me of Philippians 4:19.
“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19
Every need. Not some. Every.
“The Lord is generous,” the pastor said.
“He is not withholding. But prayer is not a transaction… It is a conversation.”
I drove home and sat in the car for a long time.

A friend from my Bible study group mentioned a prayer app she had been using.
I almost dismissed it.
An app for prayers felt strange – too modern, too simple for something so personal.
But then she said something that stayed with me.
“When I don’t know where to start, it helps me find the words I already have inside me.”
I was having trouble with that. So I checked the app out.
It is called Daily Blessing and every night, without fail, I received 7-minute guided prayer…
Which was based on what was weighing on me.
In my case, I told it about my health, the financial troubles, and the relationship with Abby that had gone quiet.
I was relieved to find words to talk about my struggles and come before God with clarity instead of noise.

Finally, I was able to speak to Him in a way I wasn’t able to before…
Without pride, anguish, or anxiety.
And this time, I felt heard by Him.
Three weeks in, I woke up one morning and realized I hadn’t thought about the diagnosis with dread in several days.
I felt more accepting of it and ready to see God’s plan through… whatever it was.
It also helped me realize that life was too short and too precious.
So I called my daughter…
And we ended up talking for forty minutes.
My little Abby cried, I cried…
Something that had been frozen between us began, slowly, to thaw… and she even agreed to come over for Easter.

Now, my financial situation didn’t change the next morning.
But one week after downloading the app, I received an unexpected $400 compensation to my credit card.
Needless to say, this put a smile on my face.
Then we found out my husband’s supervisor was switching jobs, and he was offered the position with a significant pay increase.
All of a sudden, the pieces started falling into place.
I’m not saying the app did any of that.
God did that.
I just finally got out of my own way to let Him.
And today, I am inviting you – if you feel like you need help on your path.
Come to the Lord differently.
Come to Him with your whole heart.
Come to Him with honest, humble words.
Come aligned with what He wants for you – and watch what He can do through you.
The Lord is not withholding. He is waiting.
And if you have been sitting on the edge of your bed, night after night, running out of words – you don’t have to figure it out alone.
All you need is 7 minutes – and your voice will be heard.
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GOd help me find my way Im nothing without you
I came across this and I pray all the times for financial problems and I live with my son that his wife want a divorce they have two small boys.It Lent and our house has no love or peace in it very heard at this time 💔
This hit me hard. I’ve been praying for my health and finances for months and started to feel distant from God. I downloaded the app last night and already cried through my first guided prayer. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏